“To care for those who cannot care for themselves is the true measure of humanity. To bury the dead, to grieve for those who cannot repay you, is an act of true kindness, chesed shel emet.”
- Rabbi Lord Jonathan Sacks
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OBLIGATIONS
In Jewish tradition, we have sacred responsibilities to honor the deceased and support the mourners during their time of grief.
CHEVRA KADISHA
The Chevra Kadisha, or "holy society," is a group of three to five men or women who come together to perform the Taharah (purification ceremony) for the deceased. These volunteers ask the deceased for forgiveness and recite various prayers, reflecting the dignity of the work. Members of the Chevra Kadisha remain anonymous, as this ritual—known as chesed shel emet, the truest act of kindness—is performed without expectation of gratitude.
TAHARAH
Taharah is a deeply meaningful ritual that involves respectfully preparing the deceased. Jewish volunteers carefully bathe and dress the individual in simple white garments, placing them in an all-wood casket. This act of care, performed at a funeral home, is one of the highest honors in Jewish tradition.